5 Things that will happen if you stay with the same person for a long time

Staying with the same person for a long time?!

Already in a long term relationship? Or are you in the beginning of a serious one? Do you think you found the love of your life and your ONE?!

Well listen up!  

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According to science, those couples who stay together for a long time literally change about the way how they see the world and in other words, one can even say that long-term couples can end up sharing a shared mind. Time even changes each individual. You might tell me how is this even possible?! But psychologists have come up with 5 things that distinguish a long-term couple from a couple that have just started dating:

• You develop a private language with your partner

Ever received a message from your loved one that in your opinion doesn't even make sense but at the same time it still means to you? This is one of the very first signs that you are both operating in sync.

This communication that is only shared between you and your other half actually helps you to deepen your bond with each other as well as establishing a unique identity between you too. This said is established from a study done by Professor Robert Hopper from University of Texas.

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This shared private language can vary from soppy messages to nicknames and inside jokes. Carol Bruess, a psychologist from Ohio State University, found a link between how much partners are satisfied in a relationship to how much private words they use between them. She found out that the more of the private language that they share, the more happier they tend to be! 

• You start to LOOK ALIKE!

Have you ever thought that you might be mirroring your other half? Yes its true and its even proven! According to Robert Zajonc in his 1987 study, found that married couples use the same muscles so frequently that literally start to copy each other. This is explained in other words as shared structure, from how we gaze, how our body sways and the little movements and words of how we speak!

• You start to EVEN SOUND alike!

Joshua Wolf Shenk, author of 'Powers of Two', confirms in his book that indeed, long-term couples tend to match each other "in the basic rhythms" and "structures of their speech". It is found that when people spend a long time with each other, they mimic each other in every sense from the amount of pauses one does between words to mimicking the other person's accent. 

In a study that was conducted in 2010, it was found that couples who 'sounded' more alike when texting to each other, were still dating three months later.

• You stop SELF-CENSORING

When a couple are alone together it is noted that they speak differently than if they were with other people or friends. This is because when we are infront of other people, we self-monitor ourselves by adapting our behaviours to suit the people surrounding us.

But when couples have been dating for a long time, this sort of barrier falls and instead people talk normally and fluidly without the need of self-monitoring themselves!

• You have Inside Jokes that anyone else think that they are not even FUNNY!

As much as you may find it hard to believe, research suggest that couples tend to even mirror body language of each other. 

A study that was conducted in 2007 found that couples tended to copy the same eye movements as well as copy each other's gaze when they heard the exact same background information before their conversation.

& So Basically this is it. What do you think? Did it ever happen to you? Do you know of any other facts that you think that long-term couples do? 

Leave a comment below!

C.Armeni

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Heart Attack? 10 SECONDS to SAVE YOURSELF!!!

 How to Save Yourself from a HEART ATTACK?

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Everyone knows how a heart attack happens. You might be doing nothing or you may be stressing out when it happens. BOOM. You're dead.  

But what if I tell you that there is a way to save yourself?! I think you might want to know how you can save your soul right? YES!

However there is one BAD news about it all: YOU ONLY HAVE 10 SECONDS!!!

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So what we should do if a heart attack occurs?! 
Most people when they start feeling the symptoms panic, and they fall into unconsciousness without realising that in a few seconds they can save themselves. So if you care about yourself or even for someone that you love, its better to know about this advice:

• Call an ambulance. Yes that is the first thing that you should do. It is important to call for help to come before you lose consciousness.
  
• Start coughing FORCEFULLY. DO NOT STOP.
  
• Start by coughing Slowly but DEEPLY and I repeat again: DO NOT STOP in a period of two seconds and extending as much as you can the exhaling. THIS IS THE PART THAT WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE! 

If you didn't know this, when you are taking deep breaths, you are still keeping your heart pumping blood and sending oxygen to your lungs. But when you are coughing, you are pressuring the heart to keep the circulation flowing and this is needed to bring back the rhythm of your heart back to normal!

Here is a video that will show you the whole process - Click HERE.

It is important to share this information with everyone that you know...who knows maybe you will be saving someone's LIFE!

C.Armeni

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#Science - Added elements to the periodic table

          

          New Super-Heavy Chemical Elements

NEW Atomic numbers:

• 113
• 115
• 117
• 118

Robert Grzywacz, alongside partners at Oak Ridge National Laboratory, is a co-creator of late papers, speaking to a joint effort in the middle of US and Russian researchers, that present new information on components 113, 115, 117, and 118.

The International Union for Pure and Applied Chemistry as of late reported formal confirmation of the four new compound components and perceived ORNL for the disclosure of two: 115, briefly named Ununpentium (Uup, component 115), and 117, incidentally named Ununseptium (Uus, component 117).

The four new components are found in the seventh column of the intermittent table.

"The super-substantial component examination is a standout amongst the most fascinating endeavors in atomic material science," said Grzywacz, a teacher in the UT Department of Physics and Astronomy. "It concerns the main inquiry of how protons and neutrons structure bound frameworks - the cores. 

For US experimentalists, it is an impressive exploratory test in light of the fact that the combination of super-overwhelming components is inconceivably troublesome. It requires a deliberate exertion of numerous individuals to make it work. It is an awesome yet likewise extremely time-and work concentrated examination program."

Grzywacz is chief of the UT-ORNL Joint Institute for Nuclear Physics and Applications (JINPA). He was previously an ORNL Wigner Fellow.

Grzywacz and the ORNL group built up an information procurement innovation that uses another kind of computerized sign preparing to gauge quick atomic rots down to a microsecond - one millionth of a second. Since the framework was generally untested, he and previous UT postdoctoral specialists David Miller and Nathan Brewer tried and repaired the framework, which brought about a solid procedure. The information procurement framework at first connected in the ORNL-based trials was at that point utilized as a part of studies hunting down and recognizing super-substantial cores in labs in Dubna, Russia, and Darmstadt, Germany.

The ORNL group worked with researchers from Russia and the United States on the revelation of two of the new components. Russian researchers utilized actinide targets and extraordinary 48Ca bars to produce new super-overwhelming components. The ORNL bunch supplied the objective material to create the new components, which can be integrated just at an ORNL reactor office. The UT-ORNL joint effort as of late gave another, more touchy discovery framework utilized as a part of trials in Russia.

The ORNL group will have the pleasure of naming components 115 and 117. New components can be named after a legendary idea, a mineral, a spot or nation, a property, or a researcher.

Right now, there is no immediate application for the two new components in light of the fact that the amounts that can be delivered are little and unsteady, Grzywacz said. The properties of these components might offer researchers some assistance with predicting all the more new components that can be orchestrated, with some of them anticipated to be more steady.

Grzywacz noticed that one of the delights of the examination of these components is that each hypothetical case must be confirmed tentatively.

"Tests produce shocks for speculations; hypotheses make surprising expectations for investigations," he said. "This will never stop. There will be dependably an energizing issue to explain - and incidentally, at times, and frequently out of the blue, the arrangement is really helpful for everybody." 

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The above post is reprinted from materials provided by University of Tennessee.

Note: Information is edited for content and length.

C.Armeni