Does Your Girlfriend do any of these 7 things?!

                   
                    Is Your Girlfriend a "Wifey Material?"

Hello everyone :)! Today I am going to give the guys a boost up in trying to understand women which I hope it will prove to be helpful to you.

Let me start by asking you a question. How do you know that you have found the right person for you? Some people tend to say that because they feel it..but is it true? 

How do you know when its time to stop looking for other girls because you have just got a girl that cannot be replaced? How do you know that you are certain that you can commit to her?

As a female myself, I am going to give you 7 tips about girls that in our society today are considered as "wifey material" traits. IF your girlfriend does any of these things, HOLD on to her! IF she does most of them...consider yourself LUCKY!

Here they are:

1. IF she shares your Sense of Humor, DONT let her go!

I, myself as a female think that having someone who can make you laugh is a great bonus! On the other hand, I know how much girls can be moody, so if you tell a joke and see her looking at you like you are someone out of this world, I suggest you leave A.S.A.P!! 

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But if a girl shares your jokes and even adds to them!? YOU ARE Lucky Bro! Today, all I can say is that life is too short to spend it with someone who cannot make you laugh. 

2. You're Mad and she manages to calm you down?! WOW!

Yes, us girls have a temper too and sometimes it can be quite a short one too! But if you're mad and your girlfriend manages to calm you down, then there must be something special over there!

If we manage to calm you down (&& that is our aim when we see you all pissed up), its because we really do know you on a deeper level and even if you take this detail forgranted, be thankful that you do have a girlfriend who totally understands you and your pissed up temper!

3. Same Tastes in Movies or Music? Awesome!

Taking myself as an example, I prefer a cosy night in watching movies rather than clubbing out and drinking the night away! IT obviously depends on what your girlfriend prefers BUT if she prefers staying indoors, cuddled up next to you -then its already a good sign.
 

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Also it is important to remember that since you are together, most probably you will spend a lot of evenings watching movies rather than going out, and to have someone who likes the same type of movies as you is and added bonus to avoid silly fights!

4. She Respects Your Buddy Time with your Friends? A KEEPER INDEED!

Ever found yourself in a relationship where you had to sacrifice your friends? Or know someone whom you never saw again because of his/her other half? YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

But sometimes its not always their significant other's fault. Sometimes its their own too! BUT...... if you have someone who respects the time you spend with your buddies just because she truly values your friendship with your buddies, she is DEFINITELY a keeper!

5. She calls out on your B***S***? She Cares.

You might try to pretend that you hate this..but deep down you dont. There is nothing sexier than a girl who sticks up for you, to remind you what she truly fell for in the first place!

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A girl who simply lets you walk over her is a girl that you will get bored of easily as there wont be challenges that she will make you face to rise to your own potential BUT you will N.E.V.E.R get tired of the girl who keeps on pushing you to reach your dreams that you thought were impossible!






6. SHE trusts YOU Completely

Just because she trusted you with her heart does not mean that you can go and play with it and break it up into a million pieces.

Being a girl myself I can assure you that its not easy to trust a guy especially after you've been hurt more than once. So if a girl does give you her heart, HONOUR it. Honour the fact that it might took all that she's got just to give you the most vulnerable part that she has.

Trust on its own is a must in a relationship and even in our normal lives its a beautiful thing to share but if you completely trust your other half and vice-versa then its the most magical thing to have with the one you love!

7. She truly BELIEVES in YOU

LOVE as everybody might know can either complete you or shatter you to pieces. Having said that, Love can be the most magical experience that you might experience in your life but not everyone is lucky to pass through the same.

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5 Things that will happen if you stay with the same person for a long time

Staying with the same person for a long time?!

Already in a long term relationship? Or are you in the beginning of a serious one? Do you think you found the love of your life and your ONE?!

Well listen up!  

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According to science, those couples who stay together for a long time literally change about the way how they see the world and in other words, one can even say that long-term couples can end up sharing a shared mind. Time even changes each individual. You might tell me how is this even possible?! But psychologists have come up with 5 things that distinguish a long-term couple from a couple that have just started dating:

• You develop a private language with your partner

Ever received a message from your loved one that in your opinion doesn't even make sense but at the same time it still means to you? This is one of the very first signs that you are both operating in sync.

This communication that is only shared between you and your other half actually helps you to deepen your bond with each other as well as establishing a unique identity between you too. This said is established from a study done by Professor Robert Hopper from University of Texas.

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This shared private language can vary from soppy messages to nicknames and inside jokes. Carol Bruess, a psychologist from Ohio State University, found a link between how much partners are satisfied in a relationship to how much private words they use between them. She found out that the more of the private language that they share, the more happier they tend to be! 

• You start to LOOK ALIKE!

Have you ever thought that you might be mirroring your other half? Yes its true and its even proven! According to Robert Zajonc in his 1987 study, found that married couples use the same muscles so frequently that literally start to copy each other. This is explained in other words as shared structure, from how we gaze, how our body sways and the little movements and words of how we speak!

• You start to EVEN SOUND alike!

Joshua Wolf Shenk, author of 'Powers of Two', confirms in his book that indeed, long-term couples tend to match each other "in the basic rhythms" and "structures of their speech". It is found that when people spend a long time with each other, they mimic each other in every sense from the amount of pauses one does between words to mimicking the other person's accent. 

In a study that was conducted in 2010, it was found that couples who 'sounded' more alike when texting to each other, were still dating three months later.

• You stop SELF-CENSORING

When a couple are alone together it is noted that they speak differently than if they were with other people or friends. This is because when we are infront of other people, we self-monitor ourselves by adapting our behaviours to suit the people surrounding us.

But when couples have been dating for a long time, this sort of barrier falls and instead people talk normally and fluidly without the need of self-monitoring themselves!

• You have Inside Jokes that anyone else think that they are not even FUNNY!

As much as you may find it hard to believe, research suggest that couples tend to even mirror body language of each other. 

A study that was conducted in 2007 found that couples tended to copy the same eye movements as well as copy each other's gaze when they heard the exact same background information before their conversation.

& So Basically this is it. What do you think? Did it ever happen to you? Do you know of any other facts that you think that long-term couples do? 

Leave a comment below!

C.Armeni

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