How to Let Go of someone You LOVED with all your heart....?

         6 Ways to Let Go of Someone you Loved

Love is Amazing. Love can Ruin and Destroy You Completely. Love Heals. Love can make you whole again. Love is Hell. Love will Kill You.

Do these phrases sound a bit familiar? These are all different opinions on how one interprets love based on his/her own experiences. Most of us have all experienced a heartbreak in their lifetime. And ALL of us can relate how a bad experience in life (let alone in LOVE!) can scar us forever.

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I myself, when I was young, I passed through a very bad heartbreak that scarred me for life. He was my first love and believe me when I tell you I trusted him with my heart till he tore it in pieces. Everything seemed great at first until you start to see a change. Change is all it takes to ruin everything. It took me 4 WHOLE years to push myself to truly let go and when I thought It was completely impossible, looking back, I realise how possible it really was!


However its true that it sucks letting go of the person you dreamed of building your life with...all the future plans and dreams going with the wind...BUT I assure you that YES someone better will come along! 

Here are 6 ways to help you move on with your life:

1. Take all the TIME you need for yourself

They say Time heals all wounds? BS***!! Its true that by time most of the wounds will heal..but some of them will live with you forever.

From all this and all that I passed through, I suggest you give time, TIME. Time to slowly start healing you from the inside, time to numb the pain, time to slowly turn those memories into blurry images, time to slowly help you regain your confidence and self-esteem....JUST TIME.

TRUST ME...it gets easier :)!

2. List the reasons why you had to part ways

Have you ever really sat down and wrote the reasons why you and MR/MS X really ended up going to two separate ways? 

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Unfortunately the way it happens is when you start to think of them initially you will transport yourself back in time where it was all about love and passion which is very dangerous as you are trying to FORGET the person. But to every problem there is a solution so whenever you find yourself drifting to those feelings just counter them with a negative thought or memory. That way you will have more control on your mind!  

Eventually you will find it difficult to hate him/her but always reminding yourself of the reasons you called it quits will surely make your life easier!

3. Meet Someone NEW

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No, don't let your mind wander too far! I'm not telling you jump at the first opportunity to go out with someone as I am DEFINITELY SURE that they will be a rebound to you as it happened in my case. 

But letting yourself fall in love with bits and pieces of characters and personalities of people is one of the process of recovery.

When we see someone that attracts us - we fall in love in the most shallow form of love - the kind of love that you only have very few information of the person, but come to think of it..if you are already capable of doing this, then remind yourself that you are capable of loving again! 

4. Let yourself know why you completely NEED to let go of this person

As everything else, there are cases where broken relationships can be rekindled together, then again deep in your gut you know when its really over. And when its really OVER you need to realise that it MUST remain over as even if you try and save it, it will end the same way it ended up in the first place!!

Also its important to remain focused as if you let yourself go, the past, memories and feelings will catch up with you and you will end up doing something you will regret in the future!

5. Imagine your IDEAL person, and point out which areas your Mr/Ms. X fell short.

Try to answer this question to yourself... How can you find the ideal person when you do not even know what you really want? 

So I suggest that you sit down, imagine the person that you would likely like to meet and have a future with and start writing these points. Eventually then move on to outline the areas which your Mr/Ms X failed, so that you will have a clear idea of what you really want. From this, you will set yourself some guidelines for future suitors and help you face love from a new perspective!

6. Find Your ONE!

Sometimes when you experience heartbreak, you make a vow to yourself that you will NEVER fall in love again. But if there wasn't some hope within you then I can assure you that you wouldn't be reading these steps! 

But I PROMISE you that when you find your one, your past love will become so blurry that you will eventually move on from him/her in a way that they won't affect you anymore and are merely a thought in your mind.

You will NEVER forget your first love, but this new person will fill each and every space that the old person let out until every bit that related to your old love will diminish entirely. Yes, you may think sometimes about them especially if they were your first love but you won't be yearning for them as you did before.

In my opinion, we never stop loving them.. we only just learn to live without them in our lives. But as long as the yearning goes, the pain subsides and there is someone who fills your world completely with love and respect, what else could we need more?! :)

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Is this One of the HARSHEST April Fools Prank?!

                            Have You been Pranked Today?!


Today, it is common to get pranked easily as this day is known to people to make pranks on each other. I, myself, have been pranked at work today....but is this one of the harshest pranks you can pull out on your kids?

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Joe Heenan, from London, decided to prank his kids in one of the most easiest (harshest) and funny way. 
Having his children fill up with hope that he bought them an Ipad, you can only imagine their faces when they opened the box only to find a note stating they had been pranked!!

Find the official tweet that this genious dad posted here!

What do you think? Do you Agree?! Leave comments below!!

Does Your Girlfriend do any of these 7 things?!

                   
                    Is Your Girlfriend a "Wifey Material?"

Hello everyone :)! Today I am going to give the guys a boost up in trying to understand women which I hope it will prove to be helpful to you.

Let me start by asking you a question. How do you know that you have found the right person for you? Some people tend to say that because they feel it..but is it true? 

How do you know when its time to stop looking for other girls because you have just got a girl that cannot be replaced? How do you know that you are certain that you can commit to her?

As a female myself, I am going to give you 7 tips about girls that in our society today are considered as "wifey material" traits. IF your girlfriend does any of these things, HOLD on to her! IF she does most of them...consider yourself LUCKY!

Here they are:

1. IF she shares your Sense of Humor, DONT let her go!

I, myself as a female think that having someone who can make you laugh is a great bonus! On the other hand, I know how much girls can be moody, so if you tell a joke and see her looking at you like you are someone out of this world, I suggest you leave A.S.A.P!! 

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But if a girl shares your jokes and even adds to them!? YOU ARE Lucky Bro! Today, all I can say is that life is too short to spend it with someone who cannot make you laugh. 

2. You're Mad and she manages to calm you down?! WOW!

Yes, us girls have a temper too and sometimes it can be quite a short one too! But if you're mad and your girlfriend manages to calm you down, then there must be something special over there!

If we manage to calm you down (&& that is our aim when we see you all pissed up), its because we really do know you on a deeper level and even if you take this detail forgranted, be thankful that you do have a girlfriend who totally understands you and your pissed up temper!

3. Same Tastes in Movies or Music? Awesome!

Taking myself as an example, I prefer a cosy night in watching movies rather than clubbing out and drinking the night away! IT obviously depends on what your girlfriend prefers BUT if she prefers staying indoors, cuddled up next to you -then its already a good sign.
 

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Also it is important to remember that since you are together, most probably you will spend a lot of evenings watching movies rather than going out, and to have someone who likes the same type of movies as you is and added bonus to avoid silly fights!

4. She Respects Your Buddy Time with your Friends? A KEEPER INDEED!

Ever found yourself in a relationship where you had to sacrifice your friends? Or know someone whom you never saw again because of his/her other half? YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

But sometimes its not always their significant other's fault. Sometimes its their own too! BUT...... if you have someone who respects the time you spend with your buddies just because she truly values your friendship with your buddies, she is DEFINITELY a keeper!

5. She calls out on your B***S***? She Cares.

You might try to pretend that you hate this..but deep down you dont. There is nothing sexier than a girl who sticks up for you, to remind you what she truly fell for in the first place!

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A girl who simply lets you walk over her is a girl that you will get bored of easily as there wont be challenges that she will make you face to rise to your own potential BUT you will N.E.V.E.R get tired of the girl who keeps on pushing you to reach your dreams that you thought were impossible!






6. SHE trusts YOU Completely

Just because she trusted you with her heart does not mean that you can go and play with it and break it up into a million pieces.

Being a girl myself I can assure you that its not easy to trust a guy especially after you've been hurt more than once. So if a girl does give you her heart, HONOUR it. Honour the fact that it might took all that she's got just to give you the most vulnerable part that she has.

Trust on its own is a must in a relationship and even in our normal lives its a beautiful thing to share but if you completely trust your other half and vice-versa then its the most magical thing to have with the one you love!

7. She truly BELIEVES in YOU

LOVE as everybody might know can either complete you or shatter you to pieces. Having said that, Love can be the most magical experience that you might experience in your life but not everyone is lucky to pass through the same.

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Why Men Leave Women?! :(

             
             4 Reasons Why Men Leave Women

Ever found yourself in a relationship where everything seemed to be going perfectly well until that doomed day comes when he tells you that you're both better off as friends and he leaves you there asking yourself what the heck has just happened? 

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Its true that nowadays I personally feel that the true value of relationships have literally decreased. People today just prefer to have that 'one' person who is more than friends but less than lovers in order to feel secure in not getting hurt from that relationship.

Sometimes when a good woman gets dumped by a man, she is left heartbroken asking herself 'WHY?' did it happen? and also 'WHAT?' did I do wrong? People will tell this good woman that she is indeed a good person but if it was true then WHY did he leave?

What one must realise is that sometimes its not all about the woman herself but it has to do everything with the guy himself! 

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So lets see these 4 reasons why Men leave a good woman:

1. He has immature views of this relationship

As I already told you, today people rather end a relationship then trying to fix it and this maybe one of the reasons that lead to a sudden break up. A guy sometimes does not realise that all relationships require hard work (but rewarding too!) in order to succeed.

2. FEAR of Commitment

Some men are SIMPLY NOT ready for commitment! Simply Put. He might really want her and really is interested in her but once things start getting serious, he just backs away! 

3. He thinks that he can get BETTER

This is not news. Every guys nearly pass from this stage in thinking what the hell is he doing with the same woman when he can get better and a variety of women? 

It might be a simple flirtatious text from another woman in a way that his woman hasn't flirted in a while. Attention does make a man feel good and if left unnoticed in some cases it might even leads to a secret affair!

4. He thinks that he is NOT GOOD enough

Sometimes its not because a man does not realise a woman's worth when he breaks up with her....its the other way round: HE DOES realise her worth and that is why he breaks up the whole relationship. It hurts both ways but when a man leaves a woman for this reason he is mainly implying that he doesn't trust her judgement when it comes to choosing partners (since she chose him) 

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What I can say from all this, is that leaving a good woman will make a person realise two things: He either realise by time that she truly was a good woman and that he might be missing on a great successful relationship (until not too late by that time) or else he realise that he has changed in a way that this relationship cannot just fit him!

From my own experience, passing through this situation in life, has made me realise that men,yes, they do realise when they leave a good woman! 

Do you all agree? Looking forward to any opinions!

C.Armeni

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7 Tips to Make you sound SMARTER

                Habits that make you Sound SMARTER!


Very often, we make judgement on people based on how they speak, the way they say things and how they interact among other people.

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If you are one of those people who is conscious on how they are sounding like in front of new people, take a look at these 7 tips to help you sound smarter!  

But before I begin, Did you know that when someone speaks our brain goes directly into detective mode? It pieces together information such as education, intelligence and wealth and all this help us sound smarter than we actually are!

Back to the tips here are the following:

1. Work on Posture

Standing in a good position or simply sitting straight with a relaxed spine and not in a rigid posture, presents a self-assured image of yourself & Also puts you in a more confident state for speaking

2. Avoid Mindless Language 

Speaking in buzzwords, cliches or trying to impress people by using 'difficult' words without a correct sense of meaning, portrays a lack of original thoughts.

3. Speak Loudly but not Forcefully

Projecting your voice takes time and practice, but speaking loudly in a way that it reaches to people at the far end of the room is a great tip for Sounding SMARTER! It is  very IMPORTANT not to shout as it ruins this image and puts your listeners on the edge. 

4. Pay Close Attention to your Voice

By listen closely to your voice, you can use it as your weapon of force. Think about the voice that makes you... the force that you use, the ease of sounding confident at what you are saying to make it even more convincing to your fellow listeners

5. Avoid 'Vocal Fry' and any other Vocal Irritants

People are assessed primarily on how they sound. Any annoying vocal habits affect negatively on how a person is perceived. There are mainly 2 irritants - the uptalk - where statements are perceived as questions due to high rising intonation and the vocal fry - where one end words in a raspy growl. Both convey insecurity about oneself and negativity.

6. Don't be afraid of SILENCE

Sometimes when someone talks, it is easy to notice the silence that follows that most probably leads to embarrassment for the speaker but as Harold Pinter observed, "one way of looking at speech is to say that it is a constant stratagem to cover nakedness." Hence, pausing for a few seconds, emphasizes and adds thoughtfulness to your speech.

7. Don't Weigh in UNLESS You have something to ADD

If you are speaking about a certain topic that you only have basic knowledge of, then do not EVER EVER wander into a deep discussion as it will only result into you being portrayed as an ignorant person. If you find yourself into a similar situation, just try to steer the conversation into a familiar ground where you can speak at ease and share your knowledge!

To conclude, even though most of us cannot change our voices outright, we can change our habits to reach a sense of eloquence which in return transforms you into an intelligent, engaging speaker in the eyes of those in front of you! 

In this sense, its NOT about WHAT you say but its all about HOW YOU SAY IT!

Penny Placed in your Door HANDLE? BEWARE!!!!

This is what it Means when you see a Penny placed in your Door Handle!!

Nowadays, as you all know, thieves are getting more professional in their ways to find new easy access to steal from others. 

One of their most recent method, involves an everyday household common item that one may ignore easily: A COIN!

A coin may be the last thing on your mind when it comes to thieves and their tools to break into someone's car, but in fact its becoming a viral method into managing to enter other people vehicles. 

Wondering how it all works out? EASY!

A thief jams a coin into the handle of the passenger's side and they wait until the car owner shows up.
Then, they follow the car owner home. When the car owner tries to lock the car, the mechanism will fail since the door handle will be jammed (unknowingly to the owner's knowledge) and the owner leaves thinking that his car is locked. The thief, then will enter through the unlocked door gaining access without being noticed or leaving traces!

All this is explained in the video Above- watch this so maybe you can learn some preventative methods to avoid anything from happening!

Knowledge is POWER!!!

C.Armeni

5 Things that will happen if you stay with the same person for a long time

Staying with the same person for a long time?!

Already in a long term relationship? Or are you in the beginning of a serious one? Do you think you found the love of your life and your ONE?!

Well listen up!  

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According to science, those couples who stay together for a long time literally change about the way how they see the world and in other words, one can even say that long-term couples can end up sharing a shared mind. Time even changes each individual. You might tell me how is this even possible?! But psychologists have come up with 5 things that distinguish a long-term couple from a couple that have just started dating:

• You develop a private language with your partner

Ever received a message from your loved one that in your opinion doesn't even make sense but at the same time it still means to you? This is one of the very first signs that you are both operating in sync.

This communication that is only shared between you and your other half actually helps you to deepen your bond with each other as well as establishing a unique identity between you too. This said is established from a study done by Professor Robert Hopper from University of Texas.

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This shared private language can vary from soppy messages to nicknames and inside jokes. Carol Bruess, a psychologist from Ohio State University, found a link between how much partners are satisfied in a relationship to how much private words they use between them. She found out that the more of the private language that they share, the more happier they tend to be! 

• You start to LOOK ALIKE!

Have you ever thought that you might be mirroring your other half? Yes its true and its even proven! According to Robert Zajonc in his 1987 study, found that married couples use the same muscles so frequently that literally start to copy each other. This is explained in other words as shared structure, from how we gaze, how our body sways and the little movements and words of how we speak!

• You start to EVEN SOUND alike!

Joshua Wolf Shenk, author of 'Powers of Two', confirms in his book that indeed, long-term couples tend to match each other "in the basic rhythms" and "structures of their speech". It is found that when people spend a long time with each other, they mimic each other in every sense from the amount of pauses one does between words to mimicking the other person's accent. 

In a study that was conducted in 2010, it was found that couples who 'sounded' more alike when texting to each other, were still dating three months later.

• You stop SELF-CENSORING

When a couple are alone together it is noted that they speak differently than if they were with other people or friends. This is because when we are infront of other people, we self-monitor ourselves by adapting our behaviours to suit the people surrounding us.

But when couples have been dating for a long time, this sort of barrier falls and instead people talk normally and fluidly without the need of self-monitoring themselves!

• You have Inside Jokes that anyone else think that they are not even FUNNY!

As much as you may find it hard to believe, research suggest that couples tend to even mirror body language of each other. 

A study that was conducted in 2007 found that couples tended to copy the same eye movements as well as copy each other's gaze when they heard the exact same background information before their conversation.

& So Basically this is it. What do you think? Did it ever happen to you? Do you know of any other facts that you think that long-term couples do? 

Leave a comment below!

C.Armeni

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No.2 - Guess What is IT !!!

It is used daily and it has been invented long time ago !!!

 

Leave a COMMENT AS THE ANSWER TO WHAT YOU THINK, IT IS!!!

Heart Attack? 10 SECONDS to SAVE YOURSELF!!!

 How to Save Yourself from a HEART ATTACK?

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Everyone knows how a heart attack happens. You might be doing nothing or you may be stressing out when it happens. BOOM. You're dead.  

But what if I tell you that there is a way to save yourself?! I think you might want to know how you can save your soul right? YES!

However there is one BAD news about it all: YOU ONLY HAVE 10 SECONDS!!!

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So what we should do if a heart attack occurs?! 
Most people when they start feeling the symptoms panic, and they fall into unconsciousness without realising that in a few seconds they can save themselves. So if you care about yourself or even for someone that you love, its better to know about this advice:

• Call an ambulance. Yes that is the first thing that you should do. It is important to call for help to come before you lose consciousness.
  
• Start coughing FORCEFULLY. DO NOT STOP.
  
• Start by coughing Slowly but DEEPLY and I repeat again: DO NOT STOP in a period of two seconds and extending as much as you can the exhaling. THIS IS THE PART THAT WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE! 

If you didn't know this, when you are taking deep breaths, you are still keeping your heart pumping blood and sending oxygen to your lungs. But when you are coughing, you are pressuring the heart to keep the circulation flowing and this is needed to bring back the rhythm of your heart back to normal!

Here is a video that will show you the whole process - Click HERE.

It is important to share this information with everyone that you know...who knows maybe you will be saving someone's LIFE!

C.Armeni

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                                                       FREE Images Sites




Hi Guys,

Goodmorning :)! Today I will give you some very GREAT Sites that provide you with the best quality and a vast range of high detailed FREE from copyright images !!!!

If you come across any other Free Images sites, please do share them in the comments for other followers who may find these beneficial :)!

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• New Old Stock

• Unsplash

• Foodie's Feed

• Death to the Stock Photo

• Public Domain Archive

• Good Free Photos 

• Free Range Stock

• Pickup Image

• Photogen

• Gratisography

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• Life of Pix

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• Morgue File

• SplitShire

• 1 Million Free Pictures

• pdpics

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I hope these Sites are useful for those bloggers and also for other people who have other ideas to utilise these free images !!

C.Armeni

Apps You Probably Didn’t Know that Can Earn You Extra Money!!

  Want to earn extra money?? TRY these APPS !!

Everyone is looking for the same answer to the question: "How can I EARN more money?!" I, myself am trying to find an answer to that!...

But until then I am going to share my knowledge of some apps that might earn you that little bit of extra money!
Im going to show you 10 apps that you might benefit from them. If you try them out like I did would appreciate an honest review :)!

• FOAP

Download links: Android | iOS

FOAP is a simple app for you! Want to Make some Money? Take Photos!

• Bookscouter

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Got some old books that you do not need anymore? SELL THEM!!

• Fieldagent

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Do not forget to try this one out too :)!

• Cash for Laptop

Download links: Web-Based



You can make extra money by selling your old laptop!

• Expensify

Download links: Android | iOS





If you are having problems with your expense reports, you can save time and money by using Expensify.

• Ibotta

Download links: Android | iOS



Take photos of your receipts and receive rebates using this app. Sign up for a free account, download the mobile app, and click on “Rebates”.

• Casual

Download links: Web-Based



You might be surprised, but the project management app Casual saves a great amount of money by helping reduce failures with deadlines and problems with the team involved.

• Receipt Hog

Download links: Android | iOS




This is a lot like Ibotta, because you can take photos of receipts and get rewards points for Paypal or Amazon gift cards.

• Ncponline

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Earn rewards points as a panelist for Ncponline. Scan your purchases, and send the data in to get points.

• i-Say Mobile 

Download links: Web-Based




Need to conduct some surveys?! This is definitely the one to choose! :)

I hope you will find these beneficial... Need any help do not hesitate to contact me!

Laters,

C.Armeni