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Is Your Girlfriend a "Wifey Material?" Hello everyone :)! Today I am going to give the guys a boost up in trying to understand women which I hope it will prove to be helpful to you. Let me start by asking you a question. How do you know that you have found the right person for you? Some people tend to say that because they feel it..but is it true? How do you know when its time to stop looking for other girls because you have just got a girl that cannot be replaced? How do you know that you are certain that you can commit to her? As a female myself, I am going to give you 7 tips about girls that in our society today are considered as "wifey material" traits. IF your girlfriend does any of these things, HOLD on to her! IF she does most of them...consider yourself LUCKY! Here they are: 1. IF she shares your Sense of Humor, DONT let her go! I, myself as a female think that having someone who can make you laugh is a great bonus! On the other hand, I know how much girls can be moody, so if you tell a joke and see her looking at you like you are someone out of this world, I suggest you leave A.S.A.P!!
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But if a girl shares your jokes and even adds to them!? YOU ARE Lucky Bro! Today, all I can say is that life is too short to spend it with someone who cannot make you laugh. 2. You're Mad and she manages to calm you down?! WOW! Yes, us girls have a temper too and sometimes it can be quite a short one too! But if you're mad and your girlfriend manages to calm you down, then there must be something special over there! If we manage to calm you down (&& that is our aim when we see you all pissed up), its because we really do know you on a deeper level and even if you take this detail forgranted, be thankful that you do have a girlfriend who totally understands you and your pissed up temper! 3. Same Tastes in Movies or Music? Awesome! Taking myself as an example, I prefer a cosy night in watching movies rather than clubbing out and drinking the night away! IT obviously depends on what your girlfriend prefers BUT if she prefers staying indoors, cuddled up next to you -then its already a good sign.
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Also it is important to remember that since you are together, most probably you will spend a lot of evenings watching movies rather than going out, and to have someone who likes the same type of movies as you is and added bonus to avoid silly fights! 4. She Respects Your Buddy Time with your Friends? A KEEPER INDEED! Ever found yourself in a relationship where you had to sacrifice your friends? Or know someone whom you never saw again because of his/her other half? YOU ARE NOT ALONE. But sometimes its not always their significant other's fault. Sometimes its their own too! BUT...... if you have someone who respects the time you spend with your buddies just because she truly values your friendship with your buddies, she is DEFINITELY a keeper! 5. She calls out on your B***S***? She Cares. You might try to pretend that you hate this..but deep down you dont. There is nothing sexier than a girl who sticks up for you, to remind you what she truly fell for in the first place!
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A girl who simply lets you walk over her is a girl that you will get bored of easily as there wont be challenges that she will make you face to rise to your own potential BUT you will N.E.V.E.R get tired of the girl who keeps on pushing you to reach your dreams that you thought were impossible! 6. SHE trusts YOU Completely Just because she trusted you with her heart does not mean that you can go and play with it and break it up into a million pieces. Being a girl myself I can assure you that its not easy to trust a guy especially after you've been hurt more than once. So if a girl does give you her heart, HONOUR it. Honour the fact that it might took all that she's got just to give you the most vulnerable part that she has. Trust on its own is a must in a relationship and even in our normal lives its a beautiful thing to share but if you completely trust your other half and vice-versa then its the most magical thing to have with the one you love! 7. She truly BELIEVES in YOU LOVE as everybody might know can either complete you or shatter you to pieces. Having said that, Love can be the most magical experience that you might experience in your life but not everyone is lucky to pass through the same.
4 Reasons Why Men Leave Women Ever found yourself in a relationship where everything seemed to be going perfectly well until that doomed day comes when he tells you that you're both better off as friends and he leaves you there asking yourself what the heck has just happened?
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Its true that nowadays I personally feel that the true value of relationships have literally decreased. People today just prefer to have that 'one' person who is more than friends but less than lovers in order to feel secure in not getting hurt from that relationship. Sometimes when a good woman gets dumped by a man, she is left heartbroken asking herself 'WHY?'did it happen? and also 'WHAT?' did I do wrong? People will tell this good woman that she is indeed a good person but if it was true then WHY did he leave? What one must realise is that sometimes its not all about the woman herself but it has to do everything with the guy himself!
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So lets see these 4 reasons why Men leave a good woman: 1. He has immature views of this relationship As I already told you, today people rather end a relationship then trying to fix it and this maybe one of the reasons that lead to a sudden break up. A guy sometimes does not realise that all relationships require hard work (but rewarding too!) in order to succeed. 2. FEAR of Commitment Some men are SIMPLY NOT ready for commitment! Simply Put. He might really want her and really is interested in her but once things start getting serious, he just backs away! 3. He thinks that he can get BETTER This is not news. Every guys nearly pass from this stage in thinking what the hell is he doing with the same woman when he can get better and a variety of women? It might be a simple flirtatious text from another woman in a way that his woman hasn't flirted in a while. Attention does make a man feel good and if left unnoticed in some cases it might even leads to a secret affair! 4. He thinks that he is NOT GOOD enough Sometimes its not because a man does not realise a woman's worth when he breaks up with her....its the other way round: HE DOES realise her worth and that is why he breaks up the whole relationship. It hurts both ways but when a man leaves a woman for this reason he is mainly implying that he doesn't trust her judgement when it comes to choosing partners (since she chose him)
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What I can say from all this, is that leaving a good woman will make a person realise two things: He either realise by time that she truly was a good woman and that he might be missing on a great successful relationship (until not too late by that time) or else he realise that he has changed in a way that this relationship cannot just fit him!
From my own experience, passing through this situation in life, has made me realise that men,yes, they do realise when they leave a good woman! Do you all agree? Looking forward to any opinions! C.Armeni
Habits that make you Sound SMARTER! Very often, we make judgement on people based on how they speak, the way they say things and how they interact among other people.
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If you are one of those people who is conscious on how they are sounding like in front of new people, take a look at these 7 tips to help you sound smarter! But before I begin, Did you know that when someone speaks our brain goes directly into detective mode? It pieces together information such as education, intelligence and wealth and all this help us sound smarter than we actually are! Back to the tips here are the following: 1. Work on Posture
Standing in a good position or simply sitting straight with a relaxed spine and not in a rigid posture, presents a self-assured image of yourself & Also puts you in a more confident state for speaking 2. Avoid Mindless Language Speaking in buzzwords, cliches or trying to impress people by using 'difficult' words without a correct sense of meaning, portrays a lack of original thoughts. 3. Speak Loudly but not Forcefully Projecting your voice takes time and practice, but speaking loudly in a way that it reaches to people at the far end of the room is a great tip for Sounding SMARTER! It is very IMPORTANT not to shout as it ruins this image and puts your listeners on the edge. 4. Pay Close Attention to your Voice By listen closely to your voice, you can use it as your weapon of force. Think about the voice that makes you... the force that you use, the ease of sounding confident at what you are saying to make it even more convincing to your fellow listeners 5. Avoid 'Vocal Fry' and any other Vocal Irritants People are assessed primarily on how they sound. Any annoying vocal habits affect negatively on how a person is perceived. There are mainly 2 irritants - the uptalk - where statements are perceived as questions due to high rising intonation and the vocal fry - where one end words in a raspy growl. Both convey insecurity about oneself and negativity. 6. Don't be afraid of SILENCE Sometimes when someone talks, it is easy to notice the silence that follows that most probably leads to embarrassment for the speaker but as Harold Pinter observed, "one way of looking at speech is to say that it is a constant stratagem to cover nakedness." Hence, pausing for a few seconds, emphasizes and adds thoughtfulness to your speech. 7. Don't Weigh in UNLESS You have something to ADD If you are speaking about a certain topic that you only have basic knowledge of, then do not EVER EVER wander into a deep discussion as it will only result into you being portrayed as an ignorant person. If you find yourself into a similar situation, just try to steer the conversation into a familiar ground where you can speak at ease and share your knowledge!
To conclude, even though most of us cannot change our voices outright, we can change our habits to reach a sense of eloquence which in return transforms you into an intelligent, engaging speaker in the eyes of those in front of you! In this sense, its NOT about WHAT you say but its all about HOW YOU SAY IT!
This is what it Means when you see a Penny placed in your Door Handle!! Nowadays, as you all know, thieves are getting more professional in their ways to find new easy access to steal from others. One of their most recent method, involves an everyday household common item that one may ignore easily: A COIN!
A coin may be the last thing on your mind when it comes to thieves and their tools to break into someone's car, but in fact its becoming a viral method into managing to enter other people vehicles. Wondering how it all works out? EASY! A thief jams a coin into the handle of the passenger's side and they wait until the car owner shows up. Then, they follow the car owner home. When the car owner tries to lock the car, the mechanism will fail since the door handle will be jammed (unknowingly to the owner's knowledge) and the owner leaves thinking that his car is locked. The thief, then will enter through the unlocked door gaining access without being noticed or leaving traces!
All this is explained in the video Above- watch this so maybe you can learn some preventative methods to avoid anything from happening! Knowledge is POWER!!! C.Armeni
